My dear parishioners,
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Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers, including our Heavenly Mother Mary!
This week is also the National Family and Life Week, and so we especially celebrate the importance of family and life in God’s plan! God has given us families to be “schools of virtue”, as St. Pope John Paul II highlighted. Our family is a ‘school of love’ where all are called to be valued, loved, and served with the gifts each member has from God. This trains us how to love and serve others outside the family. There is a saying – as the family goes, so goes the society. When families are more healthy, society is more healthy. We can be agents of helping families be healthier by being more Christlike to each other, and asking the Holy Spirit to guide our families. Since all human life is sacred, we wish to treat others with the love and dignity inherently proper to them because they are made in God’s image and likeness. This week the March for Life also takes place in Ottawa, as a means of helping to spread the awareness of the sanctity of every human life.
May is Mary’s month, and so we turn up the dial on our closeness with Mary, perhaps by means of praying our daily rosary with more love and focus, entrusting or consecrating ourself to Mary, and using Marian sacramentals such as the miraculous medal, the brown scapular, and blessed statues of Our Blessed Lady. Remember, Mary’s your Heavenly mother too!
Below is a message from Candice, our new parish assistant here at IHM:
Hello IHM Parish Community,
I am very excited to join your community as a Parish Assistant! I am a wife to Elvin, and we have been happily married for 21 years. We have 3 kids, 2 of whom I am homeschooling (11 year-old daughter and 14 year-old son). My eldest daughter, Rain, is in university and she plays for the 4pm Mass here every other Sunday. Everyone in the family is musically inclined, except me. But thank God that my husband has passed on this gene to them! I am part of the 2% of Filipinos who can’t carry a tune.
However, I do love teaching, especially teaching the faith and Theology of the Body by Saint Pope John Paul II. My husband and I have been doing this for several years. St. Pope John Paul II is one of our favorite saints!
I also love great movies and great books, and I believe that stories (the True, Good, and Beautiful) can convey truths of our faith in a very powerful way. Everyone in the family shares this love for movies and books, although my kids are more voracious readers than I am.
My family and I also love clean comedy and would highly recommend Catholic comedians Shayne Smith and Jennifer Fulwiler, Tim Hawkins, and Studio C skit comedy.
I would love to meet many of you while working here. So come by and say hi!
Also, please pray for me and the other pilgrims as next weekend we’ll be leaving for a pilgrimage to Spain, Portugal and France – seeing Lourdes and Fatima, among other special places!
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We look forward to welcoming seminarian Peter Hoan to our parish, since he plans to move in on May 4th! As somebody put it, our parish will “lose one Peter and gain another.” That said, we are happy to still have Peter Hoffbauer in our community! Speaking of him, please pray for Peter Hoffbauer and his family – Peter has recently lost his mother. Seminarian Peter Hoan will be ordained a deacon in June, meaning he will be able to preach to us during Mass and also carry out many other special duties as a result of receiving the Sacrament of Holy Orders. Deacons are able to preside over weddings, funerals, and baptisms, and to preach, bless homes, and expose the Blessed Sacrament - among other things. Let us keep Peter Hoan in our prayers and warmly welcome him!
On May 9th our parish will have a beautiful evening of sacred music by a new local music group called Conversatio Christo! I strongly encourage you to come for this event that will include adoration, confessions, and beautiful polyphonic sacred music. Invite your friends and family - you will not be disappointed!
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Officially starting on April 29th, our parish will have a new “parish assistant” working in the office alongside Ilaria and myself! In consultation with the Diocese and our own parish finance council, we have hired Candice Tolentino who will assist in the office for approximately 20 hours a week. Mindful that the neighbouring parishes already have even more staff and priests than our parish does, this will be a very welcome help to our parish! For the past 5 years, Candice has been the office administrator at Mount Mary, and will be able to assist both Ilaria and myself in various facets of parish life. We look forward to warmly welcoming her to our parish!
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May God bless you abundantly as we continue celebrating the Easter season,
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Have you ever had a question about your faith, the Mass, or life at IHM? Do you have an idea that could help our parish grow in holiness or enrich our celebrations? The newly formed Parish Improvement Team would love to hear from you. Their role is to bring your questions and suggestions and help me discern how to move forward with them! You’ll find a new suggestion box in the gathering space - please share your thoughts there. We look forward to serving you and helping make worship at Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish even more life-giving.
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Our adoration chapel will now be open on Saturday until 3 PM – an extension of 6 more hours! Thank you to all those who will make this possible!
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On Monday, February 2nd, Bishop Joseph Dabrowski was installed as the Tenth Bishop of Hamilton at a ceremony at the Cathedral Basilica of Christ the King in Hamilton! It was a beautiful celebration that I was very happy to be present for! If you’d like, you can still watch the video of it here as a way of getting to know our new bishop: https://youtu.be/1725HqY9hK4
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Please keep Bishop Dabrowski and our diocese in your prayers. We also have special cards for the occasion, which we encourage you to take and use to pray regularly for our new bishop! Please take a card if you don’t have one!
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As happens occasionally, someone is impersonating me again and reaching out to people through e-mail! You’ll notice that this person is not using my actual e-mail, but has made up their own e-mail to impersonate me. When in doubt, feel free to verify that any messages are really from me!
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The Canadian Bishops have encouraged us to learn more about Bill C-9, as they have written a letter to our Prime Minister about it, available here: https://www.cccb.ca/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/2025-12-04-Letter-to-PM-Religious-Freedom-EN.pdf The Archbishop of Toronto, Cardinal Leo, has also encouraged the faithful to write their MP’s over this important issue of religious freedom. I strongly encourage you to read his letter (and act on it), available here: https://www.archtoronto.org/en/outreach/news/archdiocesan/in-letter-to-the-faithful-cardinal-leo-affirms-concerns-of-canadian-bishops-re-bill-c-9/
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This past weekend we’ve also launched something called Flocknote at our parish! It is a powerful and useful system that allows a priest and pastoral staff to be in even better communication with the parish. Through it, the priest can send messages to particular groups in the parish directly, and can also send out emails (and text messages) directly to the whole parish at any given time, to best keep parishioners informed about parish life! Through Flocknote you also have access to the Word on Fire Digital Library. Let us know if you have any questions (or good ideas) on how to use this!
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May God bless you abundantly,
Fr. Greg Merkley
From Fr. Greg's Desk

Upcoming Events
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May 8th — 6:30 PM — Youth Group
May 9th — 6:30 PM — Young Adults, Convertsatio Christo, All Welcome!
May 11th— 6 PM — Chant Mass
May 11th— 6:30 PM — Card Group
May 11th— 7 PM — Men’s Recollection
May 12th — 8 PM — Meditation Group, Church
May 13th — 7:30 PM — Knights of Columbus Meeting, Parish Hall
May 14th — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
May 16th — Speed Dating Event, Parish Hall
May 16/17th — Blue Box Collection
May 18th— 6:30 PM — Card Group
May 19th— 7 PM — CWL Mass/Meeting
May 21st — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
May 23rd — 8 AM — COR Men’s Group, Meeting Rm 1
May 24th—2 PM — Family Catechism, IHM School Gym
May 25th— 6:30 PM — Card Group
May 25th— 7 PM — SSVP Meeting, Meeting Rm 1
May 26th — 8 PM — Meditation Group, Church
May 28th — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
May 29th — 1-3 PM Yard Sale Drop Off Day
May 30th—8 AM—12NOON—Parish Yard Sale, back parking lot
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Notes from Before:
Occasionally people have expressed curiosity about why I regularly wear a “black robe.” The “black robe” is more properly called a cassock, or sometimes from the French a soutane. I felt drawn to share some thoughts on this. As a person who believes that Jesus Christ guides the Church by the Holy Spirit, I value that the Church has much to say on this matter. Firstly, the most recent Directory for the Ministry and Life of Priests (2013) says the following:
“… For this reason the priest, like the transitory deacon, must: a) wear either the cassock “or suitable ecclesiastical dress, in accordance with the norms established by the Episcopal Conference and legitimate local customs”; when other than the cassock, attire must be different from the way laypersons dress and consonant with the dignity and sanctity of the minister; the style and the colour are to be determined by the Conference of Bishops; b) because of their incoherence with the spirit of this discipline, contrary practices are bereft of the rationality necessary for them to become legitimate customs and must be absolutely eliminated by the competent authority. Outside of specific exceptional cases, the non use of ecclesiastical attire may manifest a weak sense of one’s identity as a pastor dedicated entirely to the service of the Church.
Moreover, in its form, colour and dignity the cassock is most opportune, because it clearly distinguishes priests from laymen and makes people understand the sacred nature of their ministry, reminding the priest himself that forever and at each moment he is a priest ordained to serve, teach, guide, and sanctify souls mainly through the celebration of the Sacraments and the preaching of the Word of God. Wearing ecclesiastical attire is also a safeguard for poverty and chastity.”
The above norms apply to all Roman Catholic priests. This was also previously emphasized in the 1994 Directory for the Ministry and Life of Priests. Aside from the above directives, I appreciate the cassock for the fact that it is a sacramental. That is to say, like a rosary, crucifix, scapular, or other holy item, a cassock is traditionally blessed, whereas more common clerical shirts are not blessed. This makes the cassock a “spiritual shield of armor.” Many people also falsely believe that Vatican II ended priests wearing cassocks – on the contrary, not only did the council not say that, the Church has actually repeatedly called for their continued use after the council. I also appreciate therefore how the cassock is a sign of the continuity of our faith. Through the ups and downs of history, our Catholic faith remains the same in its essential teachings. “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8) Stability of visible signs gives perceptible manifestation of the stability of our faith. The cassock is also a beautiful public witness that I am distinctly a Catholic priest, so it is easy for people to realize a priest is there to serve them in any way I can. They know they can ask me for a Confession or other Sacraments when they see me. The cassock is typically black, a color reminding all that the priest is called to “lay down his life” in service. Black is the color of death – and priests are called to sacrificially “die to themselves” in service to God and their flock. On a somewhat humorous note, I’d also add that I find the cassock more comfortable than regular clergy shirts, so that’s a bonus. A priest remains free – he may wear a cassock or another officially approved form of clerical clothing. There you have it - if you’ve ever wondered why I wear a cassock, now you know!
Adam Johnstone has been accepted into the Hamilton Diocese’s permanent diaconate formation program. Please pray for him and his family as he continues to journey towards becoming a permanent deacon!
As mentioned during December, our parish’s order of daily Mass missalettes has been discontinued. The good news is that one can easily subscribe to these resources individually at www.novalis.com. We encourage you to explore the missalettes from "Living with Christ," a valuable and accessible tool for personal use. Of course, we will certainly continue to provide our Sunday missals. If you have any questions at all, please always feel welcome to contact the parish office.
Men’s Evening of Recollection, is a spiritual/religious evening aimed at providing men with an opportunity for reflection, prayer and personal growth. We are fortunate enough to have our very own group here each month The evening involves; Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament, Preached Meditation, Silent Adoration, Examination of conscience (Confessions available), Benediction, an additional talk, followed by a get together. Join us Monday evenings beginning at 7:15p.m. Next Date: December 8th
Two new sanctuary lamps now frame our tabernacle, helping us to honor the presence of the Risen Lord Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. From the tabernacle, the flames of the Holy Spirit shoot out to spark our spiritual life and bring new fire to our love for God and neighbour. Regarding the tabernacle, you might be interested is this excerpt from a book called Ceremonies of the Modern Roman Rite by Bishop Peter Elliot, widely considered an expert on Catholic liturgical matters.
Among many things, he writes, “whatever form the tabernacle takes, it should be veiled as the primary sign of the Real Presence. The veil may be white or preferably the color of the day or season, but never black. The veil represents the holy tent of the Lord, especially in the form of the canapaeum which covers a freestanding tabernacle. It is thus a paradoxical sign of mystery, revealing by concealing the sacred Presence of Emmanuel who “tabernacles” among us. The lamp (or lamps) perpetually burning before the Eucharistic Lord should be a living flame fed by oil or wax, but obviously not a volatile fuel. A natural flame is preferable because it signifies an offering as well as light.”
He also references the 1980 instruction Inaestimabile Donum approved by St. Pope John Paul II which notes in section 25 that, “The tabernacle should be solid, unbreakable, and not transparent. The presence of the Eucharist is to be indicated by a tabernacle veil or by some other suitable means laid down by the competent authority, and a lamp must perpetually burn before it, as a sign of honor paid to the Lord.” You may find it interesting to know that the veil that is currently over our tabernacle is at least 40 years old, and has probably been here in the parish since the 1960s. It was found as we were cleaning our storage rooms and going through items kept here at the Church. May the Holy Spirit help us to honor the Risen Lord truly present in the Most Holy Eucharist!
Bishop Crosby has graciously reduced our interest rate on our parish loan to 0% until November 30th, 2025. This will save us over $30, 000 a year. May God bless our Bishop!
Liturgical updates from our Diocese. To support a more full, active, and conscious participation in the sacred liturgy (which Vatican II spoke of), and to more fully align with the liturgical norms of the universal Church and of the Diocese of Hamilton, some small changes to our Sunday worship have taken place beginning this Advent. The changes are the result of direction from the Hamilton Diocese’s liturgy office, and they have been evaluated and discussed amongst our own parish’s liturgy committee. May the Holy Spirit and the Blessed Virgin Mary always guide how we worship our good and loving God.
Formed.org is a great website. I’d be so happy and I strongly encourage each person to explore www.formed.org, a fantastic resource for deepening your faith. Consider watching The Search (Season 1), Symbolon, and The Chosen.
Mass Intentions:
I want to give you an update something that comes from our Diocesan chancery office. All parishes in the Diocese of Hamilton are asked to have only two multiple intention Masses each week. The Diocesan norms permit these Masses to be on any day other than Sundays. As a result, and myself having personally touched base with the chancery about this matter, our parish will offer multiple intention Masses on Tuesday night (7 PM) and Saturday night (5 PM) on a weekly basis. I think it is very important that as a parish we act in harmony with the mind of our diocesan bishop and with the rest of our Diocese, to create a family atmosphere of unity and love. Every Sunday we are also required to offer one Mass for the people of the parish (technically called a pro populo Mass, Latin for ‘for the people’). This means we offer Mass each Sunday for all of you, our parishioners! You are being prayed for both in that Mass, and in my personal prayers. Other Masses throughout the week will only be able to have one Mass intention as per our diocesan norms. Please be aware that, as at any Catholic parish, Mass intention dates and times are available on a first come, first served basis. I am thankful for your kind understanding in this regard. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact the parish office. We are always very happy to do all we can to accommodate you in this or anything else we can do to serve you! Thank you for your continued support, and may God’s blessings be upon you all.