My dear parishioners,
This weekend is the solemnity of Pentecost, and so we open ourselves and our parish to receive the Holy Spirit anew. May we always call on the Holy Spirit to guide us and lead us with His gifts and fruits. The Church is called to be filled with and led by the Holy Spirit, as the first apostles were. The Holy Spirit offers us guidance, comfort, and direction - so “come Holy Spirit!”
I’m very grateful to be on this pilgrimage to Portugal, Spain and France! Already, we have been blessed to:
- Visit Lisbon, including the birthplace of St. Anthony
- See the Eucharistic Miracle of Santarem
- Visit Fatima and go to the various places where the 3 shepherd children lived, saw the angel of peace, and first saw Our Lady
- Participate in rosary processions in Fatima
- Visit Avila to see where St. Theresa of Avila was baptized, and the Church built over her home. We also saw authentic medieval walls and other importance places in Avila
- Visit Toledo and Madrid, seeing the cathedrals there and other neat places including the royal guesthouse of Spain.
As I write this, I am on the bus to Lourdes (shortly after having crossed the border from Spain into France). I feel very blessed to be here and to see so many special sites! Follow us by means of our social media - thank you for your prayers, as we pray for you!
I am very grateful for Fr. Ed Mahony and Fr. Pawel for filling in for me while I am away - it is very nice to have Fr. Ed back in the same church he helped build!
May is Mary’s month, and so we stay close to Mary, perhaps by means of praying our daily rosary with more love and focus, entrusting or consecrating ourselves to Mary, and using Marian sacramentals such as the miraculous medal, the brown scapular, and blessed statues of Our Blessed Lady. Remember, Mary’s your Heavenly Mother too! How can you honor her more this month?
May Mary hold you in her Immaculate Heart, and may Jesus bless you all,
Fr. Greg Merkley
Have you ever had a question about your faith, the Mass, or life at IHM? Do you have an idea that could help our parish grow in holiness or enrich our celebrations? The newly formed Parish Improvement Team would love to hear from you. Their role is to bring your questions and suggestions and help me discern how to move forward with them! You’ll find a new suggestion box in the gathering space - please share your thoughts there. We look forward to serving you and helping make worship at Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish even more life-giving.
As happens occasionally, someone is impersonating me again and reaching out to people through e-mail! You’ll notice that this person is not using my actual e-mail, but has made up their own e-mail to impersonate me. When in doubt, feel free to verify that any messages are really from me!
The Canadian Bishops have encouraged us to learn more about Bill C-9, as they have written a letter to our Prime Minister about it, available here: https://www.cccb.ca/wp-content/uploads/2025/12/2025-12-04-Letter-to-PM-Religious-Freedom-EN.pdf The Archbishop of Toronto, Cardinal Leo, has also encouraged the faithful to write their MP’s over this important issue of religious freedom. I strongly encourage you to read his letter (and act on it), available here: https://www.archtoronto.org/en/outreach/news/archdiocesan/in-letter-to-the-faithful-cardinal-leo-affirms-concerns-of-canadian-bishops-re-bill-c-9/
This past weekend we’ve also launched something called Flocknote at our parish! It is a powerful and useful system that allows a priest and pastoral staff to be in even better communication with the parish. Through it, the priest can send messages to particular groups in the parish directly, and can also send out emails (and text messages) directly to the whole parish at any given time, to best keep parishioners informed about parish life! Through Flocknote you also have access to the Word on Fire Digital Library. Let us know if you have any questions (or good ideas) on how to use this!
May God bless you abundantly,
Fr. Greg Merkley
From Fr. Greg's Desk

Upcoming Events
May 23rd — 8 AM — COR Men’s Group, Meeting Rm 1
May 24th—2 PM — Family Catechism, IHM School Gym
May 25th— 6:30 PM — Card Group
May 25th— 7 PM — SSVP Meeting, Meeting Rm 1
May 26th — 8 PM — Meditation Group, Church
May 28th — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
May 29th — 1-3 PM Yard Sale Drop Off Day
May 30th—8 AM—12NOON—Parish Yard Sale, back parking lot
June 1st— 6:30 PM — Card Group, Parish Hall
June 2nd — 8 PM — Meditation Group, Church
June 4th — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
June 6/7th — SSVP Collection weekend
June 7th — 12:15 PM — Corpus Christi Procession
June 7th — 1 PM — Golf Tournament, Southbrook
June 8th — 6:30 PM — Card Group, Parish Hall
June 9th — 8 PM — Meditation Group, Church
June 11th — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
June 12th — 10:30 AM — IHM Closing School Mass
June 12th — 6:30 PM — Youth Group, Parish Hall
June 13th — 8 AM — COR Men’s Group, Meeting Rm 1
June 13/14th - Cura Pastorum Diocesan Collection
June 13/14th - SSVP Donation Drive, Back Parking Lot
June 15th — 6:30 PM — Card Group, Parish Hall
June 16th — 8 PM — Meditation Group, Church
June 17th — 7:30 PM — Knight of Columbus Meeting, Parish Hall
June 18th — 7 PM — Praise & Worship, Parish Hall
Notes from Before:
Occasionally people have expressed curiosity about why I regularly wear a “black robe.” The “black robe” is more properly called a cassock, or sometimes from the French a soutane. I felt drawn to share some thoughts on this. As a person who believes that Jesus Christ guides the Church by the Holy Spirit, I value that the Church has much to say on this matter. Firstly, the most recent Directory for the Ministry and Life of Priests (2013) says the following:
“… For this reason the priest, like the transitory deacon, must: a) wear either the cassock “or suitable ecclesiastical dress, in accordance with the norms established by the Episcopal Conference and legitimate local customs”; when other than the cassock, attire must be different from the way laypersons dress and consonant with the dignity and sanctity of the minister; the style and the colour are to be determined by the Conference of Bishops; b) because of their incoherence with the spirit of this discipline, contrary practices are bereft of the rationality necessary for them to become legitimate customs and must be absolutely eliminated by the competent authority. Outside of specific exceptional cases, the non use of ecclesiastical attire may manifest a weak sense of one’s identity as a pastor dedicated entirely to the service of the Church.
Moreover, in its form, colour and dignity the cassock is most opportune, because it clearly distinguishes priests from laymen and makes people understand the sacred nature of their ministry, reminding the priest himself that forever and at each moment he is a priest ordained to serve, teach, guide, and sanctify souls mainly through the celebration of the Sacraments and the preaching of the Word of God. Wearing ecclesiastical attire is also a safeguard for poverty and chastity.”
The above norms apply to all Roman Catholic priests. This was also previously emphasized in the 1994 Directory for the Ministry and Life of Priests. Aside from the above directives, I appreciate the cassock for the fact that it is a sacramental. That is to say, like a rosary, crucifix, scapular, or other holy item, a cassock is traditionally blessed, whereas more common clerical shirts are not blessed. This makes the cassock a “spiritual shield of armor.” Many people also falsely believe that Vatican II ended priests wearing cassocks – on the contrary, not only did the council not say that, the Church has actually repeatedly called for their continued use after the council. I also appreciate therefore how the cassock is a sign of the continuity of our faith. Through the ups and downs of history, our Catholic faith remains the same in its essential teachings. “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8) Stability of visible signs gives perceptible manifestation of the stability of our faith. The cassock is also a beautiful public witness that I am distinctly a Catholic priest, so it is easy for people to realize a priest is there to serve them in any way I can. They know they can ask me for a Confession or other Sacraments when they see me. The cassock is typically black, a color reminding all that the priest is called to “lay down his life” in service. Black is the color of death – and priests are called to sacrificially “die to themselves” in service to God and their flock. On a somewhat humorous note, I’d also add that I find the cassock more comfortable than regular clergy shirts, so that’s a bonus. A priest remains free – he may wear a cassock or another officially approved form of clerical clothing. There you have it - if you’ve ever wondered why I wear a cassock, now you know!
Adam Johnstone has been accepted into the Hamilton Diocese’s permanent diaconate formation program. Please pray for him and his family as he continues to journey towards becoming a permanent deacon!
As mentioned during December, our parish’s order of daily Mass missalettes has been discontinued. The good news is that one can easily subscribe to these resources individually at www.novalis.com. We encourage you to explore the missalettes from "Living with Christ," a valuable and accessible tool for personal use. Of course, we will certainly continue to provide our Sunday missals. If you have any questions at all, please always feel welcome to contact the parish office.
Men’s Evening of Recollection, is a spiritual/religious evening aimed at providing men with an opportunity for reflection, prayer and personal growth. We are fortunate enough to have our very own group here each month The evening involves; Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament, Preached Meditation, Silent Adoration, Examination of conscience (Confessions available), Benediction, an additional talk, followed by a get together. Join us Monday evenings beginning at 7:15p.m. Next Date: December 8th
Two new sanctuary lamps now frame our tabernacle, helping us to honor the presence of the Risen Lord Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament. From the tabernacle, the flames of the Holy Spirit shoot out to spark our spiritual life and bring new fire to our love for God and neighbour. Regarding the tabernacle, you might be interested is this excerpt from a book called Ceremonies of the Modern Roman Rite by Bishop Peter Elliot, widely considered an expert on Catholic liturgical matters.
Among many things, he writes, “whatever form the tabernacle takes, it should be veiled as the primary sign of the Real Presence. The veil may be white or preferably the color of the day or season, but never black. The veil represents the holy tent of the Lord, especially in the form of the canapaeum which covers a freestanding tabernacle. It is thus a paradoxical sign of mystery, revealing by concealing the sacred Presence of Emmanuel who “tabernacles” among us. The lamp (or lamps) perpetually burning before the Eucharistic Lord should be a living flame fed by oil or wax, but obviously not a volatile fuel. A natural flame is preferable because it signifies an offering as well as light.”
He also references the 1980 instruction Inaestimabile Donum approved by St. Pope John Paul II which notes in section 25 that, “The tabernacle should be solid, unbreakable, and not transparent. The presence of the Eucharist is to be indicated by a tabernacle veil or by some other suitable means laid down by the competent authority, and a lamp must perpetually burn before it, as a sign of honor paid to the Lord.” You may find it interesting to know that the veil that is currently over our tabernacle is at least 40 years old, and has probably been here in the parish since the 1960s. It was found as we were cleaning our storage rooms and going through items kept here at the Church. May the Holy Spirit help us to honor the Risen Lord truly present in the Most Holy Eucharist!
Bishop Crosby has graciously reduced our interest rate on our parish loan to 0% until November 30th, 2025. This will save us over $30, 000 a year. May God bless our Bishop!
Liturgical updates from our Diocese. To support a more full, active, and conscious participation in the sacred liturgy (which Vatican II spoke of), and to more fully align with the liturgical norms of the universal Church and of the Diocese of Hamilton, some small changes to our Sunday worship have taken place beginning this Advent. The changes are the result of direction from the Hamilton Diocese’s liturgy office, and they have been evaluated and discussed amongst our own parish’s liturgy committee. May the Holy Spirit and the Blessed Virgin Mary always guide how we worship our good and loving God.
Formed.org is a great website. I’d be so happy and I strongly encourage each person to explore www.formed.org, a fantastic resource for deepening your faith. Consider watching The Search (Season 1), Symbolon, and The Chosen.
Mass Intentions:
I want to give you an update something that comes from our Diocesan chancery office. All parishes in the Diocese of Hamilton are asked to have only two multiple intention Masses each week. The Diocesan norms permit these Masses to be on any day other than Sundays. As a result, and myself having personally touched base with the chancery about this matter, our parish will offer multiple intention Masses on Tuesday night (7 PM) and Saturday night (5 PM) on a weekly basis. I think it is very important that as a parish we act in harmony with the mind of our diocesan bishop and with the rest of our Diocese, to create a family atmosphere of unity and love. Every Sunday we are also required to offer one Mass for the people of the parish (technically called a pro populo Mass, Latin for ‘for the people’). This means we offer Mass each Sunday for all of you, our parishioners! You are being prayed for both in that Mass, and in my personal prayers. Other Masses throughout the week will only be able to have one Mass intention as per our diocesan norms. Please be aware that, as at any Catholic parish, Mass intention dates and times are available on a first come, first served basis. I am thankful for your kind understanding in this regard. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to contact the parish office. We are always very happy to do all we can to accommodate you in this or anything else we can do to serve you! Thank you for your continued support, and may God’s blessings be upon you all.